XXX Dare

So you say you are fun, exciting, and/or adventurous? So are you really? DO you dare to liven up your life with this Liberating dare? OK I'm cutting all the bullshit and getting to the dare.
I dare you to become an exotic belly dancer for a night. Spring this suprise on your next date and he'll dream about you for the rest of his life. Dress up in a long flowing skirt, halter or pretty bra, don a bunch of bracelets, find a gauzy scarf to seduce him with, and one of those belly dancing scarfs! This is every man's dream.....stripping for him is overdone and its more fun to be a little mysterious. Try this and you will far along to unleashing the wild beast inside.

Clothes are Overrated

We are taught that we and how we dress are responsible for how men treat us. My question is where is the sense in that. First of all at no point in time does any person have any control over the behavior of another. The first question should be why men are taught that if a woman is dressed sexy then he has no reason to respect her and has the right to treat her any ole kind of way. That makes as much sense as white folks who say that black people had no rights they were bound to respect. If a woman was walking around but ass naked when a man sees here he has full control over his faculties and can decide to treat her with the decency and respect he would give any other human being or he could be nasty and disrespectful. If a man tells me that I need to put some clothes on for him to treat me with common courtesy and respect then I can correctly assume that he doesn’t respect women at all unless they conform to his idea of what they should do

Isn’t it funny though that men prefer women to dress sexy but only in environments that the men control and if it is for their pleasure. I’ve been doing this experiment in being naked. Mind you with my modesty upbringing being born and raised Muslim, cutting an arm or a leg off is easier than me being naked. And for days after I put up my naked picture on my space I was so uncomfortable. Felt all exposed and couldn’t even look at my picture. The thoughts running through my head were the ideas that I had been taught. That men would disrespect me. That men would consider me a sex object. That I was exposing myself and my biggest worry was what other people would think.

My first experience was that I receive a comparable number of hey sexy nice pic responses as I do from any of my other pictures. I did get a couple more picture comments though. My next realization was that what the fuck do I care and why am I judging myself according to how I have been taught to think with ideas that only serve to give men a free rein in not being accountable for their behavior and to oppress women. My question was why I was judging myself according to standards that I don’t even agree with. So I was like dammit it is my body. If I choose to go around naked, it is my choice.

And lastly what is wrong with being seen as a sex object. At some point or at least occasionally women want to be seen as sex objects. I am slowly but surely releasing my horror over being thought sexy and being found sexually attractive and embracing it as a natural, healthy and positive thing. And once again men don’t mind seeing women as sex objects but only under circumstances that they can control. I trust that I will see the day that women start living for themselves and do what they damn well please just because they feel like it.

Isn’t it interesting that we as women have been taught that it is sinful to use our bodies and our sensuality as part of our arsenal of abilities and assets to get what we want and need? What is the difference between a woman using her sex appeal and a man using his brute strength? There is no way that the universe would create males and females in such an unbalanced manner that each didn’t have its own unique strengths and weaknesses to balance out the other. And of course it is in men’s favor and our disfavor to be ashamed to use our assets to get what we want. Fuck that


So here is my scenario for all of the people who say that clothes do make the woman and if she is dressed like a ho then she should be treated like one and that men can’t help themselves:

If I took five women or similar look and build, lined them up in a row and dressed them in the identical outfit and took one man and recorded his thoughts and responses to each one, I can guarantee you that his response to each woman would be different. Because the reality is that yes your outer appearance and what you wear does have some bearing on how a man responds to you but that is only a part of the story it is far more important how you carry yourself, what kind of energy you are wearing your clothes in and the beliefs and ideas you are projecting on the world.

Mooniez designs clothes for women who like to at least occasionally be extremely sexy and naked. And a classic example is Mooniez Creative Director Halimah who prefers to be as naked as possible. She out of choice is a bra or halter top with her belly out and a mini skirt or a long skirt with a split up the thigh. Hoochie as all get out, or ‘skayntch’ as she calls it but she is never, ever disrespected. Guys give her compliments. Approach her, are definitely interested sexually and otherwise but never be talking crazy and I’ve seen other females with more clothes on than her who guys would say crazy shit to.

So Clothes can make the Woman but it really is your choice.

ANSWERS to WHY your MAN IS CHEATING???

It’s driving me nuts, I’m feeling thrown away, used and discarded. I hate myself for putting up with his shit and feeling like I must stay. I hate that I’m still living this lie, that you’ve boxed yourself in because of your ego. Feeling that I must hang on because I’m too old, fat and fucked up in the head to find a better relationship. Well he’s better than that last guy. I’m sick and tired of playing games with him. But I’m too scared to start dating again. What if I might attract a worse guy. I’m feeling unworthy of anything better. Daddy I want to blame you for not being there you’re the reason why I have such fucked up relationships. Mama its your fault you put up with Daddy’s bullshit. That guy I used to be with that broke my heart made me like this. I’m so dumb for buying my man all this shit, trying secretly to keep him around. Ashamed because of my terrible relationship history. Feeling silly for I just can’t seem to get this relationship stuff right. At least I got a man a lot of girls can’t say that. I know he cheated but he’s changed, yeah right. Who am I lying to? Why am I trying to convince myself that this shit is different?
Do any of these ideas ring true for you. We all have our version of the same story. Learning to acknowledge your thoughts that reoccur in your head is the first step to letting go of them. Through my experiences after I noticed my insecurities I stopped letting them control me. I realized after I stopped blaming and feeling guilty for my past that I had to go through these things to become the woman I am. Now I appreciate myself and know that if my relationship doesn’t work out I’ll notice my lessons. As they say nothing happens to you it happens for you. I took responsibility of creating these disempowering relationships with guys who would never satisfy me unless they got brain transplants. I realized that me having all these negative beliefs about myself drove any man crazy. When a man is sure that you won’t go anywhere then he’ll start to disrespect you and not value the relationship as something he has to work to make better. Its my responsibility to take control of my life and what kind of relationship I’m in. I began to look in the mirror realizing that my man is a reflection of what I think about myself. So I decided to leave never look back focus on working on me. I found a man who sees my beauty through my remaining insecurities and I’ll leave if he’s stops seeing this in me.

WOW...I got rid of the PEST!

For years I have been annoyed by this guy I went to school with. There are some people who know just the right way to bother or offend you. Well this guy seemed to go out of his way to seek me out to bother me. Anyway this particular guy is an insecure, male chauvinist rude pig, I can’t stand him. And there are few people that I can’t stand. But of course I am a woman so its been rammed and programmed in my head to be “NICE”.
I put with him and his annoying conversation whenever I couldn’t avoid him. He’d always find some reason to talk to me. He’d call me Ms. Hollywood (my boyfriend’s nickname) and that is just rude. For the last two years he’s been trying to get me to do his hair. I always made some excuse about being busy, having too much homework, or being preoccupied in some manner. I was not doing his hair, he wasn’t having his head between my legs for four hours under any circumstances.
The last time I was at my alma mater visiting my boyfriend, this guy found me again while I was sitting at the computer. He approaches me with this silly little grin and told me that he was going to have to get me to do his hair while I was there. I turned around looked him in the eye and told him, “that is not going to happen”. I smiled and went back to what I was doing. No explanations or excuses for him I felt no reason for them. I guess I’ve grown up because I didn’t realize what I had said. When he walked away without another word it registered how hurt he looked. My response had come out so blunt…it was like saying hell no but not being ignorant about it. I laughed to myself because he had bothered me far too long. For the rest of my stay he didn’t say a word to me, he’d just look at me from afar. It’s so great to be empowered!

A new woman has emerged

I’m playing this GAME, in 90 days I will accomplish these outrageous goals. The goals I set are to raise 5 million for Mooniez, launch my motorcycle club, lose 15 lbs., Channel 90 people in 90 days, write 90 days to becoming irresistible, and to write and record my album and get signed. I’m so excited about this journey of change the cells in my body are adjusting as if they have been starving for this structure and new way of thinking all along. Its scary when you’re forced to succeed. This is structured so you can’t fail, everybody likes to play and nobody wants to be the loser.
Everyday I’m coming to great realizations and learning new lessons. I’ve realized that I’ve lived my whole life being so scared to fail/succeed that I don’t even half step….I fourth or eight step my way through most things. I’ve realized that I usually give up right before I succeed and that I NEVER put my all into accomplishing something for me. I’ve been just waiting to see if things will happen for me, if my dreams are written in the stars then they will miraculously come true. The majority of the time when I’m offered ways to get closer to realizing my dreams I’d be so scared and paralyzed that I couldn’t take advantage of the blessings sent to me.
I’ve realized that I have been feeling guilty of being my outgoing, beautiful, personable, mischievous, intuitive, stubborn, crazy, creative self. The shame surrounding who I really am to the core has become a burden on me. I am ready to releasing these fears of being ostracized and rejected. These ideas that weren’t apparent in my conscious mind aren’t empowering and are not working for me.
This first week has been very stressful but I’ve never in my life felt as if I’m living and making quick strides towards my purpose everyday. Releasing these old ideas through tears, bouts of moodiness, moments of exhilaration, feelings of heaviness, feeling like I’ve donned on my wing have all led to a truly wonderful week for me. I’ll be sure to keep ya’ll updated on my progress.

MOONIEZ Inc.Raising $5,000,000 to Launch Company

"Raising $5,000,000 to Launch Company" ...

We are absolutely thrilled to now be in the part of the MOONIEZ business plan where are going to be fully funded. Woo Hoo. Our game plan is to raise 5,000,000 to launch MOONIEZ by the end of June. By the end of this upcoming month we would have raised our first million. In May our goal is 2,000,000 and by June we will have raised the remaining 2,000,000. We aren’t completely certain of the how, but we at MOONIEZ are 100% committed to “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality” and creating the space where all women can be empowered and irresistible and so we have set our intentions and fully trust that the Universe will assist us providing us with everything we need in manifesting 5,000,000 easily, effortlessly and have fun doing so. We will keep you updated on our progress and welcome all positive energy and encouragement.

Love Ya’ll
The MOONIEZ Mama’s
Arletta, Latifah, Halimah and Ayesha

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

XXX Dare

Ya'll have been begging for the next dare. This week XXX dare is so much fun and guaranteed to add juicyness and excitement to your life! It has to do with our favorite internet addiction.....Myspace. How did you guess? Okay here goes!! I dare you to write a description of how a "special myspacecrush" or "really hot myspace guy" makes you feel. At the end of the description write "I'm your secret admirer and have been too shy to tell you this. If you think this is you and you feel the same write back!!" Make this description detailed as possible and POST AS A BULLETIN!!! The more interesting the message the better the response.

Part 1: Downlow Brothas

...are the result of us losing the essence of what it is to be a woman.. Our responsibility as women to be fully feminine, we must embrace our sensuality and sexuality and stop honoring only our masculine traits as being the acceptable ones. Our femininity is the root of our power. When you learn to act in this nature you allow men to take back their place and take back your own place. By doing this we learn how powerful it is to be gentle, to cry, to be emotional, to operate out of intuition. As women we must regain our strength rediscover our power. For we are far more than just sex objects. There is nothing wrong with being a sex object but is that all you are. Ask yourself…why do I feel the need to be this way, is this the only way I can get attention? Being sexy is beautiful when you know your power. Is your sexiness serving you? Is sex filling a void, does it give you comfort, do you feel LOVED and appreciated for a little while, are you trying to get your power or control back, does it make you feel worthy? And we wonder why men avoid having sex with us???? There is just too much shit attached to having sex with most females and that comes along with it. We’ve all been hurt, molested, robbed of our femininity but we must stop viewing ourselves as damaged goods and realize that we are the undiscovered diamonds.