WOW...I got rid of the PEST!

For years I have been annoyed by this guy I went to school with. There are some people who know just the right way to bother or offend you. Well this guy seemed to go out of his way to seek me out to bother me. Anyway this particular guy is an insecure, male chauvinist rude pig, I can’t stand him. And there are few people that I can’t stand. But of course I am a woman so its been rammed and programmed in my head to be “NICE”.
I put with him and his annoying conversation whenever I couldn’t avoid him. He’d always find some reason to talk to me. He’d call me Ms. Hollywood (my boyfriend’s nickname) and that is just rude. For the last two years he’s been trying to get me to do his hair. I always made some excuse about being busy, having too much homework, or being preoccupied in some manner. I was not doing his hair, he wasn’t having his head between my legs for four hours under any circumstances.
The last time I was at my alma mater visiting my boyfriend, this guy found me again while I was sitting at the computer. He approaches me with this silly little grin and told me that he was going to have to get me to do his hair while I was there. I turned around looked him in the eye and told him, “that is not going to happen”. I smiled and went back to what I was doing. No explanations or excuses for him I felt no reason for them. I guess I’ve grown up because I didn’t realize what I had said. When he walked away without another word it registered how hurt he looked. My response had come out so blunt…it was like saying hell no but not being ignorant about it. I laughed to myself because he had bothered me far too long. For the rest of my stay he didn’t say a word to me, he’d just look at me from afar. It’s so great to be empowered!