"Your Little Girl" ...
I was ten years old when I decided that I was too old to play. So I determinedly put away my dolls, my beloved jump rope. packed up my skates, abandoned my bike and left my childhood permanently behind. The only thing that I allowed myself to play was sports and that was with much resistance from my father who didn’t think that girls really should play. Instead of playing I started working out, playing sports and reading. Since I have consistently ignored her, so my little girl was lonely and abandoned all of these years. Occasionally I would hear her clamoring for some love and attention and ruthlessly suppressed her, ignoring such a vast part of myself and denying myself her presence and the innocent delight of joyful fun in the process.
Recently I realized that it was time that I acknowledge ‘my little girl’ and welcome her back into my life. So I apologized to her and took out the time to shower her with love and the results have been amazing. I feel like I have opened the door and allowed the energy and zest for life I had when I was a kid back in. My everyday experiences now are similar to how they were when a girl and everything is so much fun again and the simplest things are once again highly anticipated and a big adventure.
Delight has become my new best friend and never ever again will I ignore ‘my little girl’. So my invitation is to join me in inviting your little girl back into your life. Visualize holding her in your lap and showering her with love. Apologize to her and ask for forgiveness, fortunately she is very forgiving, and ask her what would she like to do more of.
Your ‘little girl’, like all little girl likes to play more than anything in the world. So remember to play. Take a trip down memory lane and recall the things that brought you the most joy as a child and find ways of incorporating them back into your life or new and fun things that you enjoy playing at just as much.
As a little girl I always had this huge sense of fun and just enjoyed living. I liked to laugh and enjoy myself to the fullest in everything that I did. I still love playing with dolls and and ‘my little girl’ and me are going shopping to choose some toys to play with. It has been my biggest dream to play football. When I was a girl, there were no opportunities for me to play at all not to mention that I wouldn’t have been allowed to play but I have decided this year that I am going to join an adult football league and I am absolutely thrilled and excited about the whole prospect. This is huge and I can’t wait. And ‘my little girl’ is jumping with joy, she’s excited, I am happy, we’ve each made new best friends and it is a truly wonderful thing.
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